Cuddle Party Rule #6 - What if I change my mind?

Описание: Rule #6 of Cuddle Party: You are encouraged to change your mind.

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Hey everyone, welcome back this is Dr. Yoni Alkan
and we're talking about the rules of cuddle party and we've reached rule number six
I really like rule number six. It's really great
Like I said, my favorite is number two right now
But six is a really good one. rule number six of cuddle party is "you're encouraged to change your mind"
this is such a powerful tool for us
To keep it in our minds that - you know what I can change my mind. If I was a no to something a while ago
I can figure it out like we talked about in rule number five, kind of think about
It was a no then but you know what I kind of feel like it right now
You can come back to that person and ask
Are you still interested in doing what we talked about and maybe there's there still a Yes
I've changed my mind. you're encouraged to change your mind
When you answer something, hopefully you're answering with what you feel at that specific moment
So if you ask me a question and I say no to you I'm answering to where I'm at - at. that. moment.
but in a few minutes I might be
Different I might feel different I will be a different person than I was five minutes ago or five seconds ago
It doesn't matter; we change throughout time.
Our feelings change.
You know what I really like that I scream.
Oh my god - I'm done. I'm full.
This is too sweet for me. Whatever. I've changed my mind. I'm no longer who I was five bites ago, right?
So I can definitely come up and change that no to a yes or that yes to a no, which is another thing
That's really important to know when you say yes to something
You're not signing a contract that you're gonna be a yes to that thing
For the rest of the evening for the rest of your life... whatever...
No, you said yes right now and you're encouraged to change your mind if you don't feel like it anymore
It gives you so much freedom to just say "thank you. I'm done"
It gives us so much freedom to to just be able to say what we really really want
Truly in that moment and be able to say yes, and no or I've changed my mind. I'd like to do something else
It's really powerful and it allows you to connect to your true self to what you
REALLY Want and to communicate it?
Thank you everyone. Please communicate your "yes" es and "no"s and change your minds
This completes rule number six - you're encouraged to change your mind. Thank you very much. Hugs