Being Held vs. Learning to Hold Yourself

Описание: What if your desire for support isn’t the problem… but the way your nervous system has learned to rely on it?

In this episode, we explore the subtle but powerful difference between being held and learning how to hold yourself, and why so many intuitive, self-aware women can feel regulated inside sessions, containers, or relationships… yet struggle the moment they’re alone.

This isn’t about doing life alone, and it’s not about forcing independence, it’s about building internal safety (the capacity to stay with yourself while still being connected to others, to life, and to the Divine).

✨ In this episode, we explore:
-Why being held is beautiful and why it can quietly become something we need to feel okay
-The difference between external regulation and internal capacity
-What “holding yourself” actually looks like in real life
-How this pattern shows up in relationships, money, and healing spaces
-Why safety that only exists in containers doesn’t become portable
-How nervous systems learn trust through repetition
-The difference between support that empowers and support that creates subtle dependence
-What it means to feel held within yourself while staying connected to life and Spirit

💖 This conversation is for you if:
-You’re intuitive, sensitive, and deeply self-aware
-You’ve done a lot of healing work but still struggle when support disappears
-You notice yourself outsourcing clarity, safety, or permission
-You want support without losing your sovereignty
-You’re learning how to trust yourself in real life, not just in theory

💫 Reflection questions to sit with:
Where in my life am I still waiting to be held… instead of gently learning how to stay with myself?
What does “holding myself” actually look like for me right now (not perfectly, just honestly)?

There’s no need to answer these right away. Just notice what arises in your body, your breath, and your awareness.

If this episode resonated, you might enjoy exploring more of this work across my YouTube channel and other platforms, where I share conversations about self-trust, nervous system safety, and embodied inner work.

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Thank you for being here and for staying with yourself today. With love + HUGS, Amy 💕