Some Girls Opting Out of Marriage Others Sex: What Determines Which?

Описание: Malcolm and Simone Collins dive into two fascinating (and very different) trends among young women: one group that's happily dating but swearing off marriage forever, and another group embracing intentional celibacy in response to modern hookup culture.
Why are so many high-achieving women rejecting marriage altogether? Do they have a point about autonomy, identity, and avoiding "unpaid labor"? And why are younger women opting out of sex entirely — claiming dating apps have ruined intimacy?
We break down the articles, compare the two groups (with some brutal phenotype observations), discuss how media shaped different generations' views on relationships, and explore why both paths ultimately lead away from family formation.
From Tinder height discrimination to the rise of "divorced woman" as an aspirational identity, this episode examines the collapsing sexual and marriage marketplaces — and why pronatalism offers a radically different vision for fulfillment.
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Time Stamps:
00:00 - Intro + Invader Zim height society meme
00:01:00 - Two distinct trends: women refusing marriage vs. intentional celibacy
00:02:00 - Guessing which group is which from photos (phenotype differences)
00:03:00 - Makeup, attractiveness, and what it signals
00:04:00 - AI physiognomy analysis of Malcolm & Simone's faces
00:06:00 - Article 1: Women proudly dating but never marrying
00:09:00 - Being upfront about no-marriage intentions
00:10:00 - Do women still benefit from marriage in 2025?
00:11:00 - Explosive growth of the Based Camp subreddit
00:12:00 - Men falling behind: education, homelessness, workplace deaths
00:13:00 - Digression: historical circumcision practices
00:15:00 - Men gain more health/emotional benefits from marriage?
00:16:00 - Modern media's lack of aspirational marriages
00:17:00 - The new female hero's journey: trauma and self-focus
00:18:00 - "Divorced woman" as a proud online identity
00:19:00 - Marriage means becoming "we" — losing the "I"
00:21:00 - Falling into traditional roles (even unintentionally)
00:22:00 - Emotional labor and unequal standards
00:25:00 - Media sold happiness through self-fulfillment, not family
00:29:00 - Article 2: Young women choosing celibacy over hookup culture
00:33:00 - Historic vs. modern views on celibacy
00:35:00 - Hookup culture ruins intimacy and clouds judgment
00:36:00 - The dating app paradox: women chase top men, men treat them disposably
00:38:00 - Invader Zim meme returns — Tinder as height-based dystopia
00:41:00 - No one is winning in the current system
00:43:00 - Shoutout to R Fab AI (character chat platform)
00:46:00 - Accidental sex in a 4-year "celibate" streak
00:48:00 - Being blunt about no sex until commitment
00:50:00 - YouTube milestones and kids wanting the Gold Play Button
00:53:00 - Octavian narrating life like a YouTuber
00:55:00 - Kids cooking toy dinosaurs (because chickens are dinosaurs)
00:56:00 - Dinner plans and family life tangents
00:59:00 - Happiness through doing kind things for others
01:01:00 - Homeschooling update: treadmill desk success
01:02:00 - Cute kid clip: Octavian showing his magnet-tile creation