Why can’t we fulfil everyone’s expectations around us?

Описание: Sometimes, it becomes very important to ignore what each and everyone thinks about us. There are several people who would talk bad about you no matter how best you give in any situation, who would demean you if you’re growing, and who would want you to change as a person. Remember one thing, if you change for someone else, probably someone else is controlling your life!

I am not saying that you shouldn’t change, but trying to put forward that it’s just not possible to fulfill everyone’s expectations. To be frank, I was a person (or I still am) who’s very conscious about what people think about me, speak about me, and what they expect out of me. Eventually, I realized that I should be concerned only if people, whom I value a lot, think that something’s wrong with me.

When I had received my first hate comment on one of the YouTube videos, I was dismantled, as if it was the end of the world! However, one of my very close friends taught me the art of ignoring negativity and stated “getting criticism on the videos is a sign of growing” and that touched me. I guess, everyone has haters.

And yeah, if you really want to change, stop comparing yourself with other people. If you want to improve, work upon your own weaknesses and compare the current version with the previous one. Comparing yourself to the previous yourself is the best way to understand yourself!

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