When Your Own Parents Hold You Back | Toxic Family Sabotage

Описание: Have you ever felt like your parent was quietly holding you back instead of lifting you up?
Or like they didn’t want you to truly succeed?

In this live chat, we explore the psychology of toxic parents — how some mothers and fathers consciously or unconsciously sabotage their children’s growth, confidence, and independence.

We'll unpack and explore:
The subtle ways toxic parents keep their kids stuck
Why some parents secretly compete with their own children
The emotional toll of family sabotage
How to recognize and begin healing from these toxic family patterns

If you’ve struggled with toxic family dynamics, narcissistic parents, or emotional control, this discussion will help you make sense of what has happened.

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#trauma #TOXICFAMILY
#tamarahilllpc #psychology
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
3:40 Sabatoging behaviors
5:05 being a parent (regrettably)
9:32 PARENTAL SABATOGE (pathological narcissist)
12:20 conditional love
14:40 no life skills
19:39 EMOTIONAL NEGLECT
20:54 role reversal
CHALLENGES WITH THESE PARENTS
POSSIBLE IMPACT ON YOU

***There is live discussion in-between the content.

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Mentioned In The Video:
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2. Setoh P, Low PHX, Heyman GD, Lee K. Parenting by Lying. Curr Dir Psychol Sci. 2024 Feb;33(1):51-57. doi: 10.1177/09637214231206095. Epub 2023 Dec 5. PMID: 38343870; PMCID: PMC10849888.

3. Hawkins, R. (2024). The Negative Impacts of Parentification on Adolescents: A The Negative Impacts of Parentification on Adolescents: A Systematic Review Systematic Review. https://scholarsarchive.byu.edu/cgi/v...

‌4. Dariotis JK, Chen FR, Park YR, Nowak MK, French KM, Codamon AM. Parentification Vulnerability, Reactivity, Resilience, and Thriving: A Mixed Methods Systematic Literature Review. Int J Environ Res Public Health. 2023 Jun 21;20(13):6197. doi: 10.3390/ijerph20136197. PMID: 37444045; PMCID: PMC10341267.

5. Krener, P. (1988). Parent Salvage and Parent Sabotage in the Care of Chronically Ill Children. Archives of Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine, 142(9), 945. https://doi.org/10.1001/archpedi.1988...

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