S2E11 Open For Business A Discussion of Ethical Non Monogamy 1

Описание: Contrary to popular belief, ethical non-monogamy isn’t a free-for-all — it’s more like a team project with a lot of Google Calendar invites. 🗓️✨

In this episode of Dateable AF, Sarah and Rachel unpack what ethical non-monogamy (ENM) really means — and spoiler: it’s not just about sex. It’s about honesty, consent, emotional growth, and learning that love isn’t a limited resource.

We cover:
💡 What ENM actually is — from open relationships and swinging to polyamory and relationship anarchy.
🚫 Common misconceptions — “It’s an excuse to cheat,” “ENM people don’t get jealous,” and “It never works long-term.”
❤️ Why people choose ENM — curiosity, freedom, emotional honesty, and yes, better communication.
🧭 Keys to making it work — radical honesty, emotional regulation, clear boundaries, and (you guessed it) Google Calendar.
⚠️ When it goes wrong — saying “yes” when you mean “maybe,” using ENM to avoid commitment, or forgetting empathy along the way.
🌈 Advice for the curious — how to explore the idea safely, talk it through, and decide if it’s actually for you.

Because being open isn’t about loving more people — it’s about learning to love more honestly. 💖

💭 Discussion Prompts

On a scale of 1–10, how open are you to the idea of non-monogamy?

What parts of openness feel appealing — and what parts make you nervous?

How do you define “honesty” and “boundaries” in your relationships?

We love hearing your thoughts and stories — send them to us on Instagram or via email for a chance to be featured in our next AFterparty episode! 💌

🎧 Next week: “Sealed with a Mess” — why kissing can be magic… or a total red flag.

💌 Thanks for tuning in to the Dateable AF Podcast, where we help you find your happy ending.
Be bold, be kind, and for the love of queer dating — don’t text your ex.

Stay Dateable AF. 💙