The Neuroscience of Intimacy: How Trauma Shapes Who We Love | with David Helfand

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In one of the most brutally honest conversations about love, sex, and healing, Michael sits down with therapist Dr. David Helfand to unpack why modern relationships are falling apart—and how to rebuild them with hope, honesty, and emotional intelligence.

From trauma bonding and communication breakdowns to porn, politics, and the chaos of modern dating, this episode dives deep into the neuroscience of intimacy and what it really takes to create lasting connection in a disconnected world.

Discover how trauma shapes who we love, why lying can be a survival mechanism, and how vulnerability—done right—can be the doorway to real intimacy.

🎧 Listen if you’ve ever wondered:
Why you keep attracting the same kind of relationships
How to tell the truth without blowing everything up
Whether healing should come before or through love
How to find hope when connection feels impossible

Because in a world obsessed with swiping, judging, and escaping—this episode reminds us that love, when done consciously, is still the bravest thing we can do.

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00:00 Introduction
01:15 The Importance of Hope in Relationships
01:52 Navigating Modern Dating Challenges
06:34 The Role of Trauma in Relationships
07:13 Understanding Emotional Connections
09:48 The Impact of Childhood Trauma
11:50 Effective Communication in Relationships
18:57 The Dynamics of Lying and Honesty
24:02 The Power of Genuine Curiosity
31:59 Trauma Bonding in Relationships
35:23 Healing Troubled Marriages
39:31 Understanding Relationship Compatibility
40:07 Exploring Human Sexual Dynamics
41:38 Monogamy and Relationship Expectations
44:07 Navigating Sexual Preferences and Porn
45:57 The Madonna Complex and Affairs
55:28 Healing Through Relationships
59:03 Self-Sabotage and Relationship Dynamics
01:03:00 The Importance of Communication
01:14:51 Overcoming Self-Doubt in Relationships
01:18:34 Final Thoughts and Resources
1:20:33 What does it mean to be Unbroken

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Dr. David Helfand
Website: https://MarriageQuest.org
LinkedIn:   / helfandd