When you feel empty (How to fill the VOID inside you？)

Описание: I have been trying to understand the void I had and I want to share with you my perspectives about feeling empty.

Responsibilities
Pick up the responsibilities, pick up the heaviest thing you can and carry it,
It’s necessary to stand up and take responsibility.
You are capable of getting out of your bubble and changing the situation that you are not happy with, even if it would cost you a lot.
If you devote 70% of your effort to putting things right instead of 20% of your effort, you might wonder just how well things could be put together.

And I think you should start to think about what you could start doing, instead of what you think you deserve to own.


The time when you say nobody cares about me, do you remember to care about people?

You have the responsibilities to serve your community and your family, to educate yourself and to seek eternal truth and live them, the responsibilities to build a better life and better lifestyle.

Taking risks and starting to initiate actions instead of waiting and complaining.


The power of passion
Go, do something, get going. Get out there and try lots of stuff and explore many paths.

Find out what you love doing. You might not find the one thing that you love doing, but doing things that bring you joy will give you more perspectives of your daily life and what happened to you.

Going on a journey to explore the thing you like will change the way you see mundane life.

Even if you have a really boring job that consumes you, your passion will bring you joy and put balance to your daily life.

You might not find that one passion, but you will understand what you love doing and what brings you pleasures and peace, what fulfills you. people cannot tell you who you are and what you like and you have to explore that yourself. To know what you love is a powerful feeling, and you won’t be able to feel it if you just sit there and not bother to do experiments or try.


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Community
Find the people who would like to share your sorrow and joy with you, who would encourage you or face the challenges with you when you feel insecure and fear, do things with you that you actually like doing.

You might think it’s difficult to find people or even a person like this nowadays, especially in the big city where everyone is busy.

My personal suggestion is to focus on the person you find there's a possibility to build a lasting connection rather than focusing on the numbers. I personally find it really satisfying to even just have one genuine connection rather than have 8 or 20 weak connections.

You really don’t need 20 people who accept you anyway, because that’s difficult to ask 20 people to support you and understand you.

One true friend is enough and it will require lots of effort to maintain and grow that connection. Sometimes people don’t reciprocate but it’s nice of you to try to reach out first. Because if you don’t reach out first, nothing will come out of it, and nothing in your circle will change years after years. Be brave and to initiate some efforts, give out love before you criticize people not giving you enough attention.


Take care of yourself
Be kind to yourself when you fail or when you feel frustrated, take time to rest and relax.

Appreciate who you are, and always feed yourself nice food, make sure you are warm.

Stimulate yourself with nice scents, good music, and enough time to sleep.





Build hope with imagination

Your imagination is your vision. The outside world might be chaotic, but you don’t necessarily need to lose your vision.

Maybe you don’t have the friends you want to have now, you can’t go to places you want to go, you are not able to create things you want to create.

But don’t focus on that distractions just yet,
You don’t know how much what’s impossible to you right now would become possible at certain time and you put yourself together, you will be capable of doing the things that ‘s jaw dropping amazing. And you might not understand how you achieve doing these things with your ability when you are pursuing your vision. We don’t know the limits of human endeavor. We truly don’t.

And it’s premature to put a cap on what it is that we are, what it is that we are capable of.

You are already something and maybe you are not so bad in your current configuration and you could explore the possibilities of what you could become.

Use your wild imagination to think about the possibilities, don’t limit yourself in the now.

Let your imagination show you the way and always play with your imagination, just to think about the possibilities. That could bring you out of the loop of feeling powerless.

Don’t let the void consume you, or bother you. Be brave and go do something, try to find your path.

I believe you could see more perspectives of what you are experiencing if you have more actions and are willing to take more responsibilities in living your daily life.