Punishment vs Discipline: What Actually Works

Описание: Behaviour guidance isn’t about control—it’s about connection, understanding, and skill-building.

Many parents and teachers struggle with finding the right balance between being too firm or too lenient. When children refuse to listen, it can be tempting to rely on rewards or punishment. However, discipline is not about correcting behaviour—it is about guiding children to navigate the world with values, problem-solving skills, and a sense of security.

In this video, we explore:
The difference between punishment and discipline
Why rewards and punishment may backfire in the long term
How punishment affects children’s self-concept and behaviour
What logical consequences really teach children
How adults can foster intrinsic motivation and responsibility

Research shows that punishment often leads children to focus on consequences rather than their actions, resulting in fear, resentment, or dishonesty. Discipline, on the other hand, strengthens the parent-child and teacher-child relationship while teaching responsibility and life skills.

By setting positive expectations and focusing on understanding rather than control, adults can empower children to succeed—both emotionally and behaviourally.

This video is part of a series on understanding children’s behaviour and supporting them with empathy, respect, and effective guidance strategies.

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