The Lens That Revealed Control | Stoic Reframing Practice

Описание: When the project I’d built for months got shelved by a decision I had no control over, I felt completely powerless. The work was gone. The opportunity was closed. And the story I told myself was simple: “This is ruined, and there’s nothing I can do.”
But that story—that perspective—was the problem. Not the obstacle itself.
This is about the Stoic practice of reframing: changing the lens through which you see obstacles so that what you can actually control becomes visible. It’s not positive thinking. It’s not pretending disruptions aren’t real. It’s shifting the question from “Why is this happening to me?” to “What can I do with this?”
Marcus Aurelius taught that the impediment to action advances action—that what stands in the way becomes the way. But that only works if you can see past the immovable parts to what’s still in your hands.
Reframing doesn’t make obstacles disappear. It reveals the agency you have within them. Not control over outcomes or other people’s decisions, but control over your interpretation, your response, your next action.
I walk through the situation where everything felt out of my control—until I shifted the frame. And I share how reframing connects to the Stoic Dichotomy of Control: you can’t focus on what you can control if you can’t see it in the first place.
Key moments:
0:00 The Plan That Fell Apart
1:50 The Pattern I Kept Repeating
3:54 The Stoic Lens I’d Forgotten
6:31 Reframing What Felt Unchangeable
9:41 What I Could Actually Control
12:04 What Reframing Gives You (And What It Doesn’t)
14:28 The lens you choose
The obstacle is still there. But so is your agency. You just have to shift the lens to see it.
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