40. Why You’re Sickeningly Nice to People You Secretly Hate! Reaction Formation. Freud Made Me...

Описание: You’re not that nice — it’s just Reaction Formation.
In this episode of Freud Made Me Do It, we unpack one of the sneakiest defence mechanisms on the block — Reaction Formation — where your unconscious flips the script and turns forbidden feelings into their chirpy, overcompensating opposite.
Ever gushed over someone you secretly can’t stand?
Ever been super moral about sex while secretly watching porn six times a week?
Ever smiled sweetly while your insides screamed murder?
That’s not virtue. That’s your ego doing damage control.
Today I take you behind the mask of forced niceness and fake moral high ground - showing how this defence shows up in relationships, politics, parenting, and yes… your sex life. Expect brutal clarity, biting humour, and examples so accurate you’ll laugh, cringe, and maybe even confess.
Learn how to spot it, stop it, and stop being so damn 'nice'.
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