Dating Isn’t About Romance — It’s About Data (Healthy vs Hazardous)

Описание: Dating doesn’t fail because people don’t care — it fails because people skip clarity.

In this episode of Finding Harmony, we break down the real purpose of dating, how to recognize healthy vs hazardous behaviors, and why chemistry without direction leads to confusion, wasted time, and heartbreak.

Through our personal stories, practical wisdom we talk about:

Why dating is about gathering data, not chasing vibes
The difference between a nice guy and a good man
How identity impacts who you attract and tolerate
When casual dating should become intentional
Red flags people excuse — and shouldn’t
Why commitment is actually a flex

00:00 – Why This Dating Conversation Matters
02:00 – We’re Not Relationship Gurus (Here’s What We Are)
04:00 – Dating Before We Met Each Other
08:30 – “I Settled Because I Thought This Was As Good As It Gets”
12:40 – Identity Issues Ruin Dating
16:45 – The ‘Nice Guy’ vs The ‘Good Man’
21:10 – Why Purpose Makes You Attractive
26:40 – Our Real Origin Story
33:30 – Almost Missed It Moments
40:30 – Why Attraction Grows (Not Sparks)
45:50 – The Real Purpose of Dating: Gathering Data
52:00 – When Casual Dating Must Become Intentional
59:30 – Commitment vs Infinite Options
1:05:40 – What Keeps a Marriage Strong
1:10:10 – Healthy or Hazardous: Ghosting
1:13:00 – Talking for Months Without Dates
1:15:40 – Being Close With Your Ex
1:19:00 – Social Media & Relationships
1:23:40 – Finances, Passwords & Boundaries
1:30:10 – Saying “I Love You” Too Fast
1:34:00 – Meeting Family Too Early
1:38:00 – Commitment Is a Flex
1:43:00 – Final Thoughts on Love & Valentine’s Day

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