"you had all day to go to Aldi" | how a simple comment challenged my autonomy in my marriage

Описание: "you had all day to go to Aldi"
on the surface it sounds like nothing. like a trivial remark about timing and groceries,
but it wasn't nothing.

it reminded me of something he actually said to me once: that my life should center around him, and in that moment I realized that comment wasn't about Aldi at all; it was about autonomy; about who my life is supposed to be for.
so this is me speaking my truth. unfiltered. in real time. 🤎

btw, the video was cut off bc I lost space on my phone (also excuse the background noise.... at a park, so kids are having fun!)

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