Lessons Learned After Betrayal: Releasing Shame & Seeing Red Flags Clearly | Mom & Husbands Affair

Описание: This video is all about red flags. How I feel now looking back on this, how it felt in the moment, and context leading up to the red flags. The red flags start about half way through the video.

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00:00 Introduction
01:34 What the red flags really felt like in the moment
02:12 Backstory on my mom and I's relationship
04:10 You won't get validation from the same people hurting you
05:14 Why it's important to trust yourself
06:01 Example of the relationship dynamic between me and my mom
07:55 Why it's important not to shame yourself
08:33 The "Jerry Springer" stigma
10:54 We can choose better now
11:46 Be kind
11:57 Red flag #1 - How we met
12:59 Red flag #2- We didn't date
13:09 Red flag #3 - I ignored my intuition
13:52 Red flag #4 - I was young
14:04 Best Dating Tip
14:28 Red flag #5 - He was in prison
14:43 The 2 things I'm NEVER telling my daughter
15:19 Red flag #6 - We didn't share the same values
15:32 How I stopped internalizing the affair
16:25 How to tell the difference : Intuition and brain
19:26 Red flag #7- My mom would always pick his side
20:29 Red flag #8- Roll their eyes to each other about me
21:03 Red flag #9 - Working overtime on Valentines Day
22:15 The most important thing to know
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