Having Boring Sex? Here's How to Talk About It | Episode 29

Описание: If sex with your partner has started to feel routine, transactional, or uninspired, you’re not alone. In episode 29 of The Roadmap to Secure Love, Kim and Kyle explore how to talk securely about boring sex with your partner—without triggering shame or defensiveness.

This is one of the most emotionally loaded conversations couples can have. Many of us worry that bringing it up will hurt our partner or damage the connection we’ve built. But when approached through the lens of attachment and emotional safety, this conversation can actually deepen intimacy and bring couples closer together.

💬 Challenges we explore:

1. Why the “compliment sandwich” doesn’t work in the bedroom
2. How cultural and relational shame gets in the way of honest conversations
3. Why sex can feel vulnerable even in secure relationships
4. What to do when your partner interprets feedback as rejection


❤️ Key takeaways:

1. Lead with emotional longing, not criticism
2. Reframe erotic connection as an adventure you want to take together
3. Normalize mundane sex while making space for play and exploration
4. Security—not performance—is the foundation of great sex

If you’re looking for practical, emotionally attuned tools to rekindle connection and explore your desires with your partner, this episode is for you.

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Disclaimer:
The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.