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One thing to be aware of when entering a serious relationship, especially a long distance one, is what I call the honeymoon period. This applies even if you're not married yet.

What Van is sharing with you is from her personal experience and also from this amazing book, The 5 Languages Of Love by Gary Chapman.

When you're single and/or you're looking to get away from a bad breakup, you then find somebody, you may accidentally put this new person on a pedestal. You may end up falling in love quickly, and you're on a natural high when you're around this new person.

You will want to spend almost every possible moment with your new love.

On the surface, this sounds great. After all, what's better than falling in love?

If you have watched most Hollywood romantic movies, that's what happens right?

What Van has found better than falling in love is staying in love.

You see, falling in love can often be a chemical reaction, and this makes you feel great.

You then enter what I sometimes call the honeymoon period.

This is the period where you're willing to overlook most, if not, all faults of the person you fell in love with.

This is especially true if the relationship starts off as a long distance relationship because you're only seeing her at her best.

Your brain fools you into thinking that this person is perfect and having them in your life will make your life soooo much better.

While that is probably true, you can, without realizing it, make your lady into some perfect person that she can never be.

Over a few weeks or months, this chemical reaction slowly fades and if you're not carful, you can end up a little disappointed.

This can sometimes lead to friction or even fights because things that you used to find endearing and cute are not annoying.

Keep in mind that neither she or you haven't changed. It's your perception of each other that's changed.

Staying in love is what makes a relationship a success long term. You have to dedicate and commit time and effort to make the relationship work.

Yes, "work". Most people don't equate a relationship with work. This distinction was eye opening to me because like a lot of folks, I believed that if two people are in love, then everything tends to work out.

While that may be true, it's been my experience that relationships go through 2 phases: the honeymoon phase and then the long term phase.

While this may sound a little clinical, it doesn't have to be.

What you want to avoid is to have the love burn out prematurely because you're not aware of these 2 phases.

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