Use These Tips to Effectively Debug Any of Your Relationships!
Автор: Dr. Henry Cloud
Загружено: 2022-09-26
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Do you have anyone in your life that bugs you? Most people do. In this highlight from the show, Dr. Cloud offers ways to “debug” a relationship effectively. It hinges on getting away from the “global” and focusing on the “specific” issues that are bothering you by communicating those specifics calmly. Many people feel as soon as they see an issue they should respond right away, however, the first steps are awareness and observation of the problem. Pretend your conflict needs to make its way through the court system. Does the person you are irritated with deserve a warning? Parking ticket? Misdemeanor? Mature people take the offense into a regulatory system in their head so that they don't respond at the wrong level. We will often fall into the trap of thinking, “This is just how this person is,” or, “They’re always going to be like this.” While in some cases that may be true, more often people can change when we address the specific behaviors that are causing the problems rather than making the person the problem.
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