Gay Advice: How to Feel Comfortable in Gay Spaces | Just Ask Jay

Описание: Welcome back to Just Ask Jay, my virtual advice column where we unpack real stories and questions from the LGBTQ+ community.

In today’s episode, I’m answering an email from a viewer who’s been openly gay for four years but still struggles to feel comfortable in queer spaces. They often feel anxious and worry that they come off as standoffish, making it hard to build friendships.

I’ll share practical advice on:
• Navigating social anxiety in LGBTQ+ settings
• Building genuine connections with other queer people
• Understanding why discomfort doesn’t mean you don’t belong
• Ways to reframe self-consciousness into confidence

Whether you’re newly out or just trying to find your place in the community, this episode offers perspective, empathy, and actionable tools for growth.

👇🏽 Join the conversation:
How do you handle feeling uncomfortable or anxious in queer spaces? Comment below — your story might help someone else.

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Chapters
00:00 Intro
01:00 Body Language Speaks First
01:24 Energy Check
01:57 Curiosity Over Performance
02.28 Authentic Style