How To Find The Real Thing – A Mature Interdependent Partnership

Описание: Mark Smith shares how he has been able to build a healthy, deep, mature, interdependent relationship and he teaches you how you can do the same. Mark is not sure who the original author is. 50% of the reading Mark will share are his words but about 75% of the concepts are from the unknown original probably young author. Mark saw the original material entitled 'Partnership' on the Facebook page of 'Seniors Detox Fitness Health & Longevity' and it was posted by Carleen Weaver.

Mark E. Smith, MSW is the Founder and Director of Family Tree Life Coaching and Family Tree Counseling Associates. He has worked as a highly respected therapist and author in the Indianapolis area for 33+ years. He now practices primarily as a Life and Relationship Coach. He offers coaching for individuals, couples, families, family businesses, executive leaders, pastors, and therapists. He has world class coaching expertise in Affair Recovery, Relationship Issues, Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome, Sexual Addiction, Abuse, Trauma, Complex PTSD, Anxiety, Mid-Life Issues, Shame and Abandonment Issues. If you need a safe, courageous, cutting, unique, empathetic, marriage-jolting healer, he is your guy. You can contact Mark Smith at [email protected] and 317-507-8866

It takes a long time to heal – at almost age 62 this is the first time that I have had the Real Thing - Mature Interdependent Partnership

I didn’t FIND love.
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I am slowly building it.
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I didn’t FIND my Interdependent Partner.
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I found MY SELF.
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In a world of external stimulation

External validation

Unprecedented external unrest

THE most profound and divine Coupleship preparation work that you can do ALL INTERNAL.
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I didn’t FIND my “better half.”
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I became a better WHOLE.
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The coolest part is this.
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My beautiful new partner did the same thing.
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She went all in on HER SELF.
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Then our paths crossed and it was a done deal.
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We didn’t need to sell each other and frankly, time is irrelevant. You don’t need to date for years to KNOW.

You need exact and specific evidentiary moments to clearly SEE that this is EXACTLY what you have envisioned and have purposely created.
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I don’t NEED her.
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I WANT her.
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I don’t NEED her to be HAPPY.
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I AM ALREADY EXTREMELY HAPPY WITHIN MYSELF.
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She doesn’t NEED me to RESCUE her.
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She’s an Independent, Creative, Thriving, Joyful, Champion without me needing to do anything for her.
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There is NO FINDING someone to “complete” us.
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There is ONLY COMPLETING OUR SELVES, then joining forces with another soul who just happens to be on the same journey we are on.
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Quit LOOKING for MATURE INTERDEPENDENT PARTNERSHIP.
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Abide, dude and just slowly become it.
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Quit LOOKING for someone to SHOW you something genuine and healthy.
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Become someone WISE, NON-REACTIVE, DIFFERENTIATED, PATIENT, OBJECTIVE, HEALTHY AND GROUNDED and only will you provide the safety and have the maturity to genuinely SEE deeply into another person’s soul.
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That is GENUINE ROMANTIC LOVE.

It is painful, sometimes brutal HARD WORK!

Untold blood, sweat and tears will be shed.
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That’s the price of the REAL THING - Mature, Interdependent PARTERSHIP

Man UP! Woman Up! Don’t quit when it gets wickedly painful (and it will).

If you build it they will come.

Do the inner work on yourself and your unresolved family of origin issues.

And when you are ready just let the game naturally come to you. Don’t force it.
Your teacher will appear when the student is ready.

Get to work and BUILD YOUR SELF strong and sturdy and DEEP; filled with joy, creativity, confidence, big dreams, yearning, passion and a rock solid commitment to ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS be fully AUTHENTIC

Relax and just Abide Dude while to build YOUR SELF into your very own DREAMMAKER COME TRUE.