Friend Dropped Me From Her Wedding Cos I Cut My Hair For Health Reasons, So I Sued Her For My.. AITA

Описание: For my friend’s 3 day wedding, I had to buy three different dresses (including alterations, and specific shoes which totaled over $700. She also wanted specific hair styles for each day.

Unfortunately starting in March my hair started to deteriorate. Due to health reasons my hair was falling out in chunks and in May i made the difficult decision to cut my hair. I told the bride about my decision two weeks before the wedding and she didn’t say anything bad. The following week, she came over to my house and when she was about to leave, she brought up that she was concerned about my haircut and I told her it would look good even though I wouldn’t be uniform with the other bridesmaids. The following day I received this message:

“After our recent conversations, I’d like to remind you of my boundaries: I’ve been very accommodating and graceful, but I can’t allow you to disrespect me. As you know, my wedding has been something I’ve dreamt of for many years. (Husband) and I have invested a lot of money into the video and photos of this day and as we reflect on this day in the further we want to see our vision reflected in the memories. Since I asked each of you to be bridesmaid in 2019, I’ve been very clearly and very communicative in my request. The timing of your decision to cut your hair and not income in advance is very upsetting to me. I would have felt respected if you had communicated with me more than a week prior to the wedding, so we could have worked together to find a collaborative solution. Your inconsistencies have concerned me and while I sympathize with your health concerns, I’m not willing to compromise my vision to accommodate you (or anyone else) when you have informed me in advance and we could have found a better solution. Since this something you can no longer fully commit to, I need you to please step down from participating in my wedding.”

Story 1:
AITA for taking my friend to court after she kicked me out of the bridal party for cutting my hair?
Story 2:
AITA for enforcing a country club’s dress code and not changing my venue?
Story 3:
AITA for refusing to take off my engagement ring for my sister?
Story 4:
AITA for spending a large amount of money in a trip with my dad instead of paying the debt on my boyfriends house?

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