‼️🚨 Is It HALAL for Me to Have a Crush? | Belal Assaad

Описание: #Psychology #Parenting #Relationships
We often dismiss a "crush" as a harmless phase of childhood.
A fleeting moment of infatuation that holds no weight in the real world.

In this critical lecture, Belal Assaad argues that this dismissal is a dangerous oversight.

Addressing both youth and parents, Assaad dissects the anatomy of the "crush"—defining it not as love, but as a temporary, intense projection of fantasy onto a stranger. He warns that while the feeling itself is involuntary (and thus not sinful), the obsession it breeds can lead to stalking, emotional torture, and spiritual degradation. By distinguishing between the biological reality of attraction and the Islamic imperative of self-control, the talk challenges the modern normalization of early romance.

Assaad also offers a unique linguistic analysis of friendship, contrasting the Rafiq (the peer you lean on, who knows nothing) with the Wali (the guardian who is invested in your future), urging young Muslims to seek guidance from those who can actually protect them, rather than those who are just as lost.

This video examines the psychology of infatuation, the vital role of father-daughter communication in "vaccinating" against cheap attention, and why true love is built on character, not the illusion of a sunset.

🎓 Lecturer: Belal Assaad
📅 Recorded: 2023
📖 Full Lecture:    • Is it Halal for me to have a Crush?  

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