Eros vs Thanatos Energy in Marriage | How to Bring Aliveness Back

Описание: If your marriage feels emotionally flat, disconnected, or stuck, you're not alone.

In this episode, we're talking about Eros energy vs Thanos energy in marriage, -two powerful forces that shape desire, emotional intimacy, and connection over time.

You'll learn:
-What Eros energy really is (and why it's not just about sex)
-How Thanos energy slowly drains aliveness from a marriage
-Why desire must be self-generated, not demanded
-How differentiation creates deeper emotional and sexual intimacy
-Practical ways you can cultivate aliveness and bring it back into marriage

This episode is especially for those who want a marriage that feels emotionally and spiritually alive, -not just functional.

✨ If you've been asking, “Why do I feel so disconnected?” or “How do I bring desire back into my marriage?” -this conversation will give you clarity, hope, and a new way forward.

🤗 Thanks for listening and being a part of my circle. Please share with your friends, so they can create more joy in their lives too.

00:00 – Welcome & why Eros energy matters in marriage
01:15 – What Eros energy is (definition, aliveness, desire, creativity)
03:20 – How we recognize Eros in everyday life and relationships
04:45 – Desire is generated within, not given by a spouse
06:00 – Introducing Thanatos energy (emotional deadness in marriage)
07:40 – Signs of Thanatos: resentment, control, withdrawal, straddling
09:05 – The painful truth: staying married but emotionally lifeless
10:00 – What living in Eros energy looks like for a woman
11:20 – Differentiation, honesty, openness, and emotional courage
12:30 – Self-check reflection questions for awareness
13:30 – How to cultivate more Eros: ownership of desire & stopping over-functioning
14:45 – Truth-telling, discomfort, growth, and reconnecting with God
16:15 – Bringing Eros back into your marriage (becoming more yourself)
17:30 – Powerful reflection questions to reclaim aliveness