26: don’t get used to complaining — venting without action becomes victimhood | Thinking Out...

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26: don’t get used to complaining — venting without action becomes victimhood
there’s a difference between expressing frustration to release an emotion and getting stuck in a cycle of constant complaining. i think that difference lies in how often the same source of frustration shows up without any real action to address it.


when the same issue never gets addressed and instead just turns into a tongue lashing you tell over and over to anyone who’ll listen, your subconscious starts to learn that you’re the victim and that change isn’t actually coming. dangerous waters.


definitely a bit of tough love today, because complaining can feel very natural to a lot of people. but if this episode at least makes you think twice about the productivity of certain venting sessions, then i’ve done my part.


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