"I'm Being Blamed for Their Cheating" The Misdiagnosed Marriage Crisis

Описание: If you're struggling with the pain of cheating and betrayal trauma or you suspect addiction is impacting your relationship, we're here to support you. Reach out to us and let us know what's going on: marriagehealth.org/contact

In this episode of Marriage Health, expert ‪@KristinSnowden‬ joins James & Teri Craft to reveal the hidden cause that's often overlooked: addiction.

Restoration of a relationship or marriage is possible but betrayal trauma healing can seem impossible when a hidden addiction leads to lies, gaslighting, abuse, manipulation, narcissistic abuse, shaming, or infidelity.

If you're feeling blamed, confused, or gaslit, this video is a MUST-WATCH. You'll learn:

Why promises to "never do it again" keep getting broken
How to tell when infidelity stems from addiction versus a "bad patch" in marriage
The signs of sex addiction, porn addiction, and other hidden addictions
How to know if your partner is truly committed to recovery
How to protect yourself and start healing, even if your partner isn't ready
A clear path forward when addiction is destroying your relationship

"I'm not an addict" – These words from James reflect the denial that keeps countless relationships trapped in cycles of betrayal. As former megachurch pastor James and his wife Teri share their journey through addiction, recovery, and healing, they offer hope for couples facing similar struggles.

Whether you're dealing with pornography use, emotional affairs, physical infidelity, or other betrayal, understanding the addiction component is crucial for genuine healing.

00:00 Being Blamed for Their Cheating
02:08 Addiction vs Marriage Problems
04:20 Signs of Emotional Warfare
06:39 James's Turning Point
09:06 The Denial Trap
11:42 The Betrayed Partner's Experience
13:48 Erosion of Self-Worth
15:47 Two Essential Questions
17:46 The Breakthrough Moment
21:40 Breaking Free from Labels
23:25 Getting Honest About Addiction
25:48 The Wall to Human Connection
27:01 Clinical Signs of Addiction
32:19 Why Willpower Always Fails
34:05 Should I Stay or Go?
36:44 Signs of Real Change
39:25 Breaking the Isolation Cycle


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