The Living Relationship
I’m Shane Kohler and I give Conscious Dating Advice, but I'm not a traditional
therapist. I didn't go to college. I have an extensive education in psychology,
spirituality, and relationships but my education has come through self-study,
mentors I personally sought out, and real life experience. I don't give textbook
answers. I give relatable advice based on real life experience.
The goal of this channel is for you to realize how amazing you truly are. I want
you to KNOW that you deserve the absolute best in the world. I want you to
live a Life fully expressed where you Love passionately and deeply, where you
feel alive and vibrant, and where the Love that you give is given back to you
100 times over.
In short on this YouTube channel you’ll learn how to consciously create a
lifetime partnership with your ideal partner.
Shane's Diary Entry #5: A Course in Miracles, Spiritual Awakening, and the Holy Relationship
The 10 Things Men Say That Confuse Women (and What They Actually Mean)
Men Will Not Approach You in 2025: How to meet men in the wild...
How to Train a Man: The Feminine Formula for Lasting Devotion
How to Know a Man is Ready for Commitment (He's Not Afraid—He's Just Not Ready for You)
The Secret Every High Value Woman Knows About Masculine Energy
Why Men Stop Seeing You as High Value (Even When You Are)
Shane's Diary Entry #3: My journey to love, that path to healing and finding my wife
Your Attachment Style is a Lie: The truth about anxious women and avoidant men...
How to Heal the Subconscious Attraction to Avoidant Men
The Spiritual Nature of Attachment
Shane's Diary Entry #2: Spiritual Narcissism, Toxic Positivity, and Learning to Embrace the Shadow
“How could you leave me?” Why Love Would Never Ask This Question…
A Woman's Greatest Wound: The Need to Be Chosen
The Truth About Men in 2025
Shane's Diary; Entry #1: Reflections on becoming a father, relationship to my parents, addiction, an
Beyond Charm and Chemistry: Attracting a Partner Who is Truly Emotionally Available
Choosing the Right Partner Part 2: Individual Aspects of Compatibility
QUESTION - What to Do When He Goes Dark for Days?
Choosing the Right Partner, Part 1: Universal Aspects of Compatibility
QUESTION - How To Stop My Anxiety From Ruining a Relationship?
The #1 Way We Sabotage a Relationship Before It Even Has a Chance to Grow
QUESTION - How to Stand Out in Modern Dating and Dating Apps?
Is He Worth the Wait… or Are You Wasting Time?
QUESTION - How Long Should I Wait for Him to Choose Me?
Why am I still Attracting This? When you thought you outgrew it—but the pattern shows up again…
QUESTION - Is My Independence Keeping Me Single?
Why He’s Not Committing (Even If He Loves You)
QUESTION - What if Someone Aligns with What I Want but I'm Not Physically Attracted to Them?
When Being Happy and Single Becomes a Barrier to Love: 7 Secret Stories That Keep You Safe (and Alon