Alan Robarge / Attachment Trauma Therapist
Hi, welcome to my channel.
I'm Alan Robarge. I'm here to help you make sense of why relationships can be so challenging, especially when patterns from your past keep showing up.
As an Attachment, Trauma-Focused Psychotherapist and Relationship Educator, I share insights and practical ideas to help you build stronger, more meaningful connections. If you're ready to understand and change these patterns, then check out my library of videos.
And if you'd like more personalized guidance, please reach out to work together. I am here to help.

Feeling Fragmented? How to Heal and Find Wholeness: Choose People Who See You

Stuck, Triggered, & Crushed? How Therapy Helps Us Heal the False Self and Find Our True Identity.

Shut Down & Anxious After Trauma Triggers / How Disconnected Mind Finds Resources & Relationships

Part 3/ Bonding with Sex / Wrong Relationship / Attachment and Rushing Sexual Relating

Part 2/ Bonding with Sex / Wrong Relationship / Attachment and Rushing Sexual Relating

Part 1/ Bonding with Sex / Wrong Relationship / Attachment and Rushing Sexual Relating

Are You and Your Partner Compatible? What If Not? How Compatibility Strengthens Attachment Bonds

Relationship Ends Before It Begins, Hopeless Dating & Unrequited Love's Grief, Healing Attachment

When Are You Going to be Healed? Healing Attachment Wounds / Alan Robarge, Psychotherapist

When Asked, How Do We Heal? / Healing Poem / Inspiration / Transformation Poetry / Self Actualized

Painful Relationship Grief, Too Much Suffering, Needing Support, Loneliness of Attachment Trauma

Emotional Neglect: An Empty, Absent Feeling When Your Inner World Is Ignored / Attachment Trauma

Attachment Wounds Fusing Shame With Love: Bonding Through Trauma / Healing Therapy for Relationships

Dating Wrong Person But Bonding with Sex / Attachment and Rushing Sexual Relating / Relationship

Love Bombing Ourselves by Rushing Intimacy and Creating Instant Relationships / Attachment Trauma

Dating & Relationship's Mixed Messages, Expectations, and Assumptions: Not Seeing the Truth

Holiday Heartbreak: Relationships Ending (Anniversaries, Birthdays) Grieving, Breakups, Attachment

Childhood Emotional Neglect: As Adults, We Ignore Red Flags, Deny Reality, Tolerate Unavailability

Dating w/ Attachment Trauma: Vulnerability Triggers Anxiety - Cling, Run, or Avoid? Fear of Intimacy

Love Addiction's Longing to be Reunited After Losing Self in Relationship / Alan Robarge Therapist

Couples In Crisis: Relationship Stuck In Anger, Blame, and Gridlock / Alan Robarge Psychotherapist

Grieving Unrequited Love: Losing The Promise After Relationships Fail / Alan Robarge Psychotherapist

Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style: Emotional Disappearing and Distancing by Alan Robarge

When Relationships End: Loneliness, Heartbreak, and Attachment Trauma, Alan Robarge, Psychotherapist

When Asked, "How Do We Heal?" Alan Robarge, Healing Heartbreak, Transformation, Grieving Self

Video 7 of 7 / Insidious Attachment Trauma / My Story / Why No New Videos / and Inner Child Healing

Video 6 of 7 / Insidious Attachment Trauma / My Story / Why No New Videos / and Inner Child Healing

Video 5 of 7 / Insidious Attachment Trauma / My Story / Why No New Videos / and Inner Child Healing

Video 4 of 7 / Insidious Attachment Trauma / My Story / Why No New Videos / and Inner Child Healing

Video 3 of 7 / Insidious Attachment Trauma / My Story / Why No New Videos / and Inner Child Healing