Alan Robarge / Attachment Trauma Therapist
Hello. My videos are about relationships - healing the pain of being stuck in romantic, partner relationships, unable to end-leave, and heartbreak. As a psychotherapist, healing means grieving our losses. I explore emotional triggers, self-doubt, and attachment wounds from toxic, dysfunctional families.
I examine developmental childhood attachment trauma and its lifelong impact on partner relationships. Couples counseling as repair includes reviewing codependency, love addiction, loss of self, fear of vulnerability and intimacy, living with emptiness from emotional neglect, feeling unseen, and being ignored. If your inner life is dismissed, then you're not known. If you're not known, you feel you don't matter.
Trauma recovery includes inner child work, reparenting, secure attachment, and better boundaries. I address abandonment fears, loneliness, toxic shame, trust issues. Emotional resilience balances dysregulated nervous systems. We rewire our brain. We find our voice. We heal.
What Happens When You Lose Your IDENTITY in a Relationship?
Top Therapist Reveals BEST Journaling Techniques for Brain Health
3 Steps to Overcome Shame and Build HEALTHIER Relationships
How to Love the World Even When It’s Breaking Your Heart | Channel Update
Discover How Attachment Trauma Affects Our Understanding of Love
6 Types of Loneliness You Never Knew About: Longing for Relationships
Is Therapy Just Talking or Something More?
How To Explain Attachment Wounds To Someone You Love
How to Tell Your Partner You're Having Attachment Trauma Flashback - The Exact Words That Work!
Why We Pick Partners Like Our Parents
Правда об одиночестве: почему фраза «ты не один» кажется пустой
Why Do We Act Like Kids When We're Upset?
Чувствуете себя раздробленным? Как исцелиться и обрести целостность: выбирайте людей, которые вас...
The Secret Behind How Therapy Works
Shut Down & Anxious After Trauma Triggers / How Disconnected Mind Finds Resources & Relationships
Part 3/ Bonding with Sex / Wrong Relationship / Attachment and Rushing Sexual Relating
Part 2/ Bonding with Sex / Wrong Relationship / Attachment and Rushing Sexual Relating
Part 1/ Bonding with Sex / Wrong Relationship / Attachment and Rushing Sexual Relating
Are You and Your Partner Compatible? What If Not? How Compatibility Strengthens Attachment Bonds
Relationship Ends Before It Begins, Hopeless Dating & Unrequited Love's Grief, Healing Attachment
When Are You Going to be Healed? Healing Attachment Wounds / Alan Robarge, Psychotherapist
When Asked, How Do We Heal? / Healing Poem / Inspiration / Transformation Poetry / Self Actualized
Painful Relationship Grief, Too Much Suffering, Needing Support, Loneliness of Attachment Trauma
Emotional Neglect: An Empty, Absent Feeling When Your Inner World Is Ignored / Attachment Trauma
Травмы привязанности. Слияние стыда и любви: связь через травму / Терапия исцеления для отношений
Dating Wrong Person But Bonding with Sex / Attachment and Rushing Sexual Relating / Relationship
Love Bombing Ourselves by Rushing Intimacy and Creating Instant Relationships / Attachment Trauma
Смешанные послания, ожидания и предположения в сфере знакомств и отношений: неспособность увидеть...
Holiday Heartbreak: Relationships Ending (Anniversaries, Birthdays) Grieving, Breakups, Attachment
Childhood Emotional Neglect: As Adults, We Ignore Red Flags, Deny Reality, Tolerate Unavailability